His Secret Obsession 

For some, it is the hope that they will somehow reunite with their ex. While these types of stories do occur, it important to look at choices, communication, and actions both parties have engaged in to better assess the damage to trust, and realistic chances of this being repaired. Most break-ups occur, when one partner realizes the other is no longer compatible with their long term goals for the future. The deal breakers that led to this decision are most likely still there, and regardless of which side of the break-up a person is on, they must ask themselves whether they pine for the other person, or they pine for the comfort a relationship can bring.

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